If you’re wondering whether your boyfriend or husband still loves you and/or wants to be with you, look out for these warning signs he’s not into you anymore.
These are 8 signs that are pretty easy to pick up on, but it never hurts to be extra sure before you take action!
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8 Signs He’s Not Into You Anymore
1) Is he spending more time with his friends and less time with you?
If you think your boyfriend is spending more time with his friends than he is with you, it could be a sign that he’s not into you anymore.
If your boyfriend no longer wants to spend any time with you, then chances are pretty good that he’s looking for an excuse to break up with you. The fact that he still spends time with his friends might suggest that he’s just using them as an excuse for not wanting to spend more time with you.
Either way, if your guy doesn’t have time for both his girlfriend and his friends, then there might be trouble in paradise! If so, take a step back and figure out what’s going on before making any rash decisions or accusations.
2) Has the Sex Slowed Down?
Guys don’t always realize when they aren’t into a girl anymore, because they think they should be having sex even if they aren’t excited about it.
But it’s pretty obvious to a girl if he just wants to get physical with her out of obligation or simply to scratch an itch. If you notice that things are moving much slower sexually than they used to, pay attention!
That could be a red flag that he’s no longer interested in you—and probably isn’t going to try very hard to change your mind.
3) He doesn’t do the things he used to do for you.
One of the biggest warning signs that he is no longer interested in you is if he stops treating you the way he used to. He might not call or text anymore and begin to take a backseat role in your relationship.
If you’ve noticed a change in how often he does things for you, it might be a sign that he isn’t into you anymore.
However, not every man will do things for women because they have feelings for them; men do nice things for women because they want something from them.
So if your boyfriend has been doing less and less overtime, it could just mean that his expectations of the relationship have decreased as well.
4) Does He Start to Pull Away?
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If you feel like your guy is starting to pull away, it could be a sign that he’s losing interest.
If he is hanging out more with friends and family, or spending more time on work-related projects, you may start thinking that there’s something off about your relationship. On top of pulling away from you (physically and emotionally), he may also make excuses for why he can’t hang out as much.
If he starts making up new plans at the last minute so that he doesn’t have to see you, be warned! This is usually a sign that things are over before they even begin!
5) Has He Lost Interest in Your Appearance?
If you were once at a point where he complimented your looks, and now he doesn’t even bother, it could be that he’s not so much into you anymore.
If he’s suddenly no longer interested in what you have to say or cares about your day, then it may be time to move on.
When someone is not into you anymore they aren’t going to put forth any effort. They won’t try and make a good impression or want to impress anyone with what they do.
They are no longer putting forth any effort because they don’t have anything invested in trying anymore. A person that wants you and is still interested in having a relationship with you will put forth some effort for both of those things to happen.
6) Is There No Romance in Your Relationship?
How do you know when your relationship is lacking in romance? Has your man stopped being romantic with you?
Or does he seem to have lost interest altogether, and now treats you more like a roommate than a partner? Maybe it’s time for a conversation about love.
7) Have His Actions Become Rude or Disrespectful?
Everyone argues, but if you’re seeing disrespect and rudeness, in general, more than once a week, it could be a sign he is not into you anymore.
If he consistently uses phrases like whatever or just do it, or rolls his eyes when you talk to him, something may be wrong.
These actions show that he doesn’t care about your feelings, which can make you feel unattractive and undesirable. It might also mean that he feels disrespected by you because of how often you argue with each other.
Whatever your situation, there are steps you can take to resolve these issues so that both of your needs are met.
8)He doesn’t do the things he used to do for you.
One of the biggest warning signs that he is no longer interested in you is if he stops treating you the way he used to. He might not call or text anymore and begin to take a backseat role in your relationship.
If you’ve noticed a change in how often he does things for you, it might be a sign that he isn’t into you anymore. However, not every man will do things for women because they have feelings for them; men do nice things for women because they want something from them.
So if your boyfriend has been doing less and less overtime, it could just mean that his expectations of the relationship have decreased as well.
If you’re wondering whether your boyfriend or husband still loves you and/or wants to be with you, look out for these warning signs he’s not into you anymore. These are 8 signs that are pretty easy to pick up on, but it never hurts to be extra sure before you take action!
Frequently asked questions
What are the signs that a relationship is over?
The signs a relationship is over are pretty clear: Your partner no longer finds you attractive. When your partner has cheated, that’s a pretty obvious sign it’s over,
But there are other signs that indicate things are on the rocks too.
#1 They avoid spending time with you: This is one of those signs he is not into you anymore, which doesn’t necessarily mean he has lost interest in being with you, but rather that something else has taken priority. Maybe he wants to spend more time at work or with his friends.
How to know he’s interested after first date
It’s hard to know what is going on in a guy’s head, especially if you just met him. If you want to know if he is interested after your first date, there are certain signs to look for that will tell you more about his intentions.
For example:
- Did he hold eye contact with you, did he laugh at your jokes and make some of his own? Did he seem engaged in your conversation, or did it feel like he was waiting for an opportunity to interject or change topics?
- Was he affectionate or shy while holding doors open for you or pulling out your chair at dinner?
